How we build our life (part 1)

Kahwin.... Alahamdulillah we have been married for 6 years... and we have been couple for 12 years.  All the way long we still trying to learn each other and trying to be the best for each other.
Masa buat keputusan nak kahwin dulu, we were still trying to struggle to cope with our new life. Yelah baru kerja, and that time Shamil still tukar-tukar kerja. Until he received an offer from a better company.
But if he accepted the offer he need to work in Miri. That was the hardest decision for him. Apa guna pasangan yang thorbaeek macam aku ni kan... psycho habis-habisan suruh dia terima offer tu for the sake of our future. (walaupun aku tak rela berpisah...bluweek)
So kami decided to get engaged 1st. Bertunang for 1 year. Kami sama-sama kumpul duit because for me what ever it is we need to settle down. Umur makin tua... tunang lama-lama pun bukan best. Hantaran berapa yang mampu je, tak payah majlis grand-grand sebab yang penting life after marriage.
Alhamdulillah we managed to kahwin within one year after the engagement. Kami cari rumah sewa before kahwin, so that lepas kahwin senang sikit ada rumah terus. The best part was kami cuci rumah 1st time kami masuk rumah tu after our honeymooney. 
Balik dari honeymoon la pi beli mop, penyapu, cuci lantai semua-semua la.. dah sangat daif keadaan kami sehingga kalau aku panggil bersamamu pun boleh dapat bantuan..huhuhu.. tido atas toto, baju semua dalam beg, lantai ada tikar kecik jer, basuh baju pakai tangan, televisyen pun tarak pocik!
Tapi that was the sweetest moment because we did it from zero until now alhamdulillah we managed to own our landed house. Opps masa tu kami sewa apartment at the 4th floor. Memang menangis kalau balik shopping groceries sebab takde lift. Namun, thanx a lot to the owner sebab tak pernah naikkan sewa rumah sepanjang 3 and half year kitaorang rented kat situ. 
Pengajaran for part 1: Kahwinla kalau dah sampai masa untuk kahwin sebab rezeki Allah tu luas, minta pada Dia, inshaAllah akan dipermudahkan.