What pantang is all about

Assalamualaikum...
Hi guys.. apa pendapat korang tentang berpantang? Now I am in 40days of pantang and follow the old folks rules it should be 44days of pantang. And of course with 4 child and when it came to jaga diri sendiri, pantang is just wearing socks and eat ikan.. haha 
Ok this time, I am seriuosly do the tungku for 30days only and after that just cilok-cilok tungku. I also says bye bye to the bengkung at 30 days because it was not easy to move with the bengkung. This time around it was just not my rezeki when my mother not feeling well to take care of me while I am in pantang mode. 

So most of the time I am alone with my heroes and heroin and when you are in pantang mode you are not advisable to be stress because people afraid about meroyan coming to the stress new born mummy.
So to make it light for me ( this is my own rules ) I just seriously do the tungku, pilis, bengkung for 30 days and after that I feel and tested I can fit my own jeans so I stopped those 'renyah' thing and just continue wearing socks, eat jamu, put on those minyak angin and continue it until 44 days. 
The important is please don't stress your mind..  even sometimes I do feel it because my husband will only came back during the weekend and I have to adapt myself to the most dependable situation with 4 children. 3 toddler and 1 new born baby. Only Allah know how do I feel. 
I still not going out for jalan-jalan, only one time at one month I went to bring the baby for vaccination. I'm good enough what.  
What is in my mind this will be my last pantang.. enough with 4 children, and I want to focus on raising them up and hopefully Allah will me and my husband strength, more rezeki, good health, and a happy family.