Blues untuk ummi...

When is the warmest feeling towards your children? For me when they understand their mother condition (tired, angry, loved etc) and they know how to put themselves during that moment. The other thing is when they know whether one action or reaction is right or wrong ( even though they still keep on repeating the same mistakes ). 
Jadi as a mom we should not feel like 
"deorang ni bukan nak dengar cakap aku"
or
"malas nak ulang banyak kali... bukan deme faham pun"
or 
"lantakla korang, dah besor esok pandai-pandai la kome"
or 
whatever reason la kan. Just don't give up. 
All this are based on my experiences. Different parent may have different approach. So up to you. For me I just like to speak (or maybe talk with high pitching..ngeh,,ngeh,,ngeh) to them. Jemu gak cakap benda yang sama, tapi takpela.. hopefully deorang pun tak jemu mendegar.
Example:  Zinnirah asked me why ummi did not buckling them like abah did. I said because I got baby in me. So I can't lifted heavy thing. So one day, when they were happy playing and running around the hall, she came to me and said 
"ummi.. you cannot buckling me because you got baby, right?" 
So this show that they can understand the situation if we told them the truth. Sometimes, one mistake keep one repeating couple of times, sampai tahap mak ni meletup bak gunung berapi la kan. Tapi, one day unexpectedly, they talk to themselves that we cannot do this, ummi will get angry. Maksudnye deme ni faham, tapi maybe they just need some attention.  

Oklah oklah.. benda ini jadi biasanya ummi tengah solat, or ummi buat-buat tidur.. means masa time kita tak tengok deorang. 
Ini kes anak-anak aku la.. anak orang aku tak tau. Ni pun untuk 2 yang teratas.. the rest kita tengok macam mana nanti.